A reflection tool for parents

The Connection Check

Ten quick questions about the everyday moments between you and your toddler — and what developmental science says about the warm, secure base children grow from.

This is a reflection tool, not a test or a diagnosis. A child’s attachment can only be assessed by a trained clinician — never by a questionnaire. There are no “good” or “bad” parents here, and nothing labels your child. Your answers stay on your device — nothing is sent, saved, or shared.

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Always trust your gut over a score. If anything about your child’s development, mood, or behavior worries you — regardless of what this reflection says — your pediatrician is the right first call. toddcovery is educational and does not diagnose.

The Connection Check

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The science of the toddler years, translated into what to actually do.